
Influence is the art of winning people’s cooperation when you do not have, or do not want to use, the authority to make them do what you want them to do. It involves shaping the way people feel and think. These are seven tips and tricks to master the art of influence that might be usefull for you and your business.
1. Make people feel understood
Spend less time trying to make people understand what you want, and more time making them feel understood. In an ideal world people might make decisions, commitments, and judgments based on logic and sound reasoning. But in this world people act in response to their preferences, feelings, and social



We all know that the ability to give a public speech is one of the most valued business skills today. And yet most people report that giving a speech is their number one phobia. These are 10 tips to get over your nervousness and to speak confidently.
1. Expect to be nervous
Even experienced speakers get nervous. Instead of trying to eliminate your jitters, turn them into energy you can use to boost your delivery.
2. Prepare
Know what you are going to say – and why you want to say it.
3. Practice
Speak to supportive audiences in small forums where less is at stake – at a staff meeting or a



We all have people with whom we have to work to get things done. Our ability to communicate with clients, customers, subordinates, peers, and superiors can enhance our effectiveness or sabotage us. Many times, our verbal skills make the difference. Here are 10 ways to increase your verbal efficacy at work:
1. Develop your voice
A high whiney voice is not perceived to be one of authority. In fact, a high soft voice can make you sound like prey to an aggressive co-worker who is out to make his/her career at the expense of anyone else. Begin doing exercises to lower the pitch of your voice. Here is one to start: Sing —

